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Monday, 21 May 2018

gatecrash the party

Hang around in charismatic circles long enough, and several things will happen. 

You’ll get weird side-hugs for a start, like an arm around the shoulder as though you were both posing for an imaginary photographer. That is of course, provided you’ve already successfully navigated your way through the awkward handshake/high-five/embrace moment, when neither of you are quite sure what’s going to happen. That’s always exciting.

There’s more excitement though; it doesn’t stop there! You might get whacked in the face by a bamboo stick that’s been loosely attached to a coloured flag, or treated to a classic display of dad-dancing circa 1987. You could be deafened by a tambourine (or an over-enthusiastic clapper who’s learned to cup their hands but mysteriously not the meaning of the off-beat). Or you might get caught up in a vaguely-formed queue for a coffee-in-a-polystyrene-cup, or just plain old trapped in a row of chairs that have been blockaded by people fervently praying for each other in small groups at either end of the row.

You will be loved though, that’s for sure. It’s kind of inevitable when God shows up.

And that happens a lot: God ‘shows up’, the Holy Spirit ‘turns up’, Jesus makes a sort of appearance, and (don’t misunderstand me) it’s usually great!

I’ve been thinking about that terminology though, today. And it gets stranger the more I ponder it. God shows up.

Weren’t we expecting it?

I mean... we’ve literally gone to his house and spent the best part of four songs and  thirty minutes, singing his name and shouting about how good he is. You’d ‘show up’ if it were you too, I reckon. It’s a peculiarly charismatic thing, that tiny element of shock that God was actually there in the middle of our worship time. If I phoned my Dad and asked him to pop over, I’m not sure how he’d react if I opened the door and excitedly said: ‘Oh! It’s you!’ as though I’d been expecting him to stay home instead. It’d be even weirder if it was at his house.

What I think we mean though, is not that God was unexpected, or had somehow gatecrashed our carefully-planned service*. I think what we mean is that he did it in a way that was kind of new and kind of awesome, and the freshness of it was beautifully, wonderfully, miraculously surprising.

As worship team, I think part of our job is to set the table, prepare our environment, and be expectant that God will do something cool in response to our worship, and particularly, our praise. It’s almost as though, he ‘shows up’ when we do, and the Holy Spirit ‘turns up’ in response to our hearts together.

With that in mind, I’m starting to think that the best thing we can do is learn how to create the spaces for him to do... well, exactly whatever he wants to do, even when we have no clue it’s coming! And that takes some time to learn together, and some secret-place-hours to recognise that fragrance by ourselves.

So, what do you think? How do we set the tempo, the pulse, the atmosphere for God to arrive? What could we do?

By the way, I recommend the handshake/high-five/pull into a hug combo. Style it out. And if you’re fed up with getting poked by kids with flagpoles, remember first that God loves little people worshipping, and second that if you’re in  the worship band you’re out of reach if you’re behind a microphone. So come join us!

Hopefully.


*If ever you’re stuck for what to pray in the pre-service prayer meeting, might I recommend: “Please come and gatecrash our carefully-planned service.”

Thursday, 10 May 2018

great listeners

You're not going to believe it, but I think the Bible predicted Twitter, thousands of years ago.

Check this out:

"Fools find no pleasure in understanding, but delight in airing their own opinions."
- Proverbs 18:2

Okay, I know, I know: it's human nature. But here's the challenge for me this week: am I better at talking than I am at listening? Do I have conversations when I'm planning which intelligent zinger I should say next, instead of taking in what the other person is actually saying?

One of the current themes at the heart of The Gate Worship is what I'm starting to call the 'power of less', finding the 'moments between the moments' and using spaces more effectively. We'll come back to that, don't worry, but a part of it I think, is learning how to listen much better. At least for me!

There is definitely pleasure to be found in understanding - not just information, data, music theory or quiz facts, but understanding each other. You're put together in an extraordinary way, and there are bound to be depths to who you are, that nobody fully realises yet. You're awesome! And one of the greatest pursuits in life is finding out how awesome, how deep and how surprising another human being can be. As team, as community, as family, as people, our goal is to be great at exactly that.

So, today's question: Do you take delight in understanding? Are you brilliant at sharing your own opinions? How well do you take on board those of other people? Do you have conversations where you're truly listening to the other person?

Let's be great listeners. Even on Twitter.